Marriage and the Single Gal

In The Atlantic I read an article by a single lady who is getting older, and she has decided she should consider settling on a man.  The article is rather long, but it gives a lot of insight into our current world.
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I’m Thinking About Sex (Again)

Last week, in this post, I mentioned that I was rethinking my assumptions about sex. Part of my impetus for this was this book by Sam and Bethany Torode, which was very provocative. I want to note that the authors have changed their mind, and they posted a response to their own book here. Since I didn’t agree with all of their original conclusions, this new response is less than persuasive for me.
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I’m Thinking About Sex

I’m a guy, so the title of this post is no surprise. But what I’m thinking might be a surprise. I’ve been challenged twice in the last few weeks by things I’ve read about the purpose of sex, and the ethical implications for marriage.
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Premarital Foundations

When ever a couple comes to me to get married, they get the same basic talk. This letter represents at a high level what kind of things are important. Read it and tell me what you think. Help me out by telling me if you think your premarital counseling was below average, average or above average, and why.

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